Sex and the Soul: Enslaved by the Hook Up Culture
Harvey Mansfield carries this review of Sex and the Soul: Juggling Sexuality, Spirituality Romance and Religion on America’s College Campuses by Donna Freitas in today’s Wall Street Journal. Mansfields writes:
No doubt lurid anecdote and popular myth cause us to exaggerate the actual frequency of campus hook-ups: Most college students do not share in these delights. But most students also believe that “everyone does it,” even if the individual student, for some reason, cannot locate a partner. Thus an active minority sets the tone and makes hooking up a “culture.” When there are no sexual boundaries, either official or informal, the standard becomes the extreme, and all students feel the pressure to appear more promiscuous than they are. The traditional double standard of sexual conduct – more restrictive for women than for men – has been replaced by the single standard of the predatory male.
In “Sex and the Soul,” Donna Freitas, an assistant professor of religion at Boston University, acutely describes this “liberated” campus culture and wisely analyzes its effects. She is especially concerned to measure conduct and expectation against the inner life of students, including their religious feeling or “spiritual” selves. Over and over again she finds a conflict that does not resolve itself happily . . .