Monogamous same-sex adultery
David Benkof has this commentary in the San Francisco Chronicle. He writes:
I argue against same-sex marriage in part because I think the gay and lesbian community barely understands marriage, particularly the part about fidelity . . . But my concern is not about the extent of extramarital sex in each community. It’s about the vast gulf in attitudes between gays and straights on whether a promise to be sexually exclusive is an essential component of a proper marriage . . .
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Um, OK my previous comment indicating I do not consider myself an ally of the ADF has apparently been deleted . . . [Moderator: The remainder of this comment has been redacted. Mr. Benkof’s earlier comment was deleted inadvertently in the course of removing spam from the system. For clarity, Mr. Benkof is not an ADF ally. His article is posted in accord with our normal practice of posting articles from many perspectives on issues of interest to ADF.]